Let go of those who are not ready to love you. It is the most difficult and most important thing you will ever do in your life.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop showing your presence to people who aren’t interested.
I know that your instinct is to do everything you can to receive the appreciation of those around you, but it steals your time, energy, and mental and physical health.
When you start fighting for joy, interest, and determination in your life, not everyone is ready to follow you to that place.
It doesn’t mean you have to change yourself, it just means you have to let go of people who aren’t ready to be with you.
If you feel ostracized, insulted, forgotten, or ignored by the people you’re with, you’re not doing yourself a favor by continuing to give them your energy and life.
The truth is that you are not for everyone and everyone is not for you.
This makes it unique when you find the right people for friendship or love.
Because it is not, you will feel how valuable it is.
There are billions of people on this planet, and most of them you will find at your level of interest and passion.
Maybe if you stop coming, they won’t look for you.
Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end.
Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will go dark for a few weeks.
This does not mean that you have destroyed the relationship, but rather that the energy you give off is keeping the relationship alive.
It’s not love, it’s attachment.
It’s giving a chance to those who don’t deserve it!
You deserve more.
The most valuable things in your life are your time and energy.
The people and things you devote your time and energy to will define your existence.
When you understand this, you begin to understand why you are so nervous
Spend time with people, activities, and spaces that aren’t right for you and shouldn’t be around you.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is to protect your energy above all else.
Make your life a safe place where you only allow people who are “right” with you.


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